As entrepreneurs, what we all have in common is the underlying message that successful people are the ones who take that extra considered breath and then make an informed decision. But in real life and in every busy business, there is a moment where noise takes over, for example, clients are restless, deadlines or deliveries are missed or both.
Generally, the team senses this first, then leadership picks it up and finally admits it.
Urgency then follows, usually disguised as either productivity or a new direction, and decisions are made faster, but often not always better.
The successful leaders, those who stand out and outperform, regulate their thoughts and actions, allowing people to inform before they set the direction.
This will build or enhance resilient teams, allowing for sharper calls, and creating long-term deliverables adding value, not noise.
People should never mistake calmness for softness or thoughtfulness for lack of drive. It’s never those things. In reality, calmness is control and purpose.
Creating space between the issue and the response allows you to see the bigger picture and more often than not deliver more efficiently and faster than a scattergun approach.
To act deliberately and intentionally when others are rushing is a superpower.
By doing so, they become the most reliable decision-maker in the room, the de facto leader and powerhouse.
When pressure rises, the brain switches into survival mode, people know it as fight or flight. Focus tightens, and the priority becomes immediate relief, not long-term outcomes.
That can help in moments of danger, or even when pushing hard to disrupt a market, but it works against you when you’re setting direction, negotiating, or leading people.
Regulated leaders manage their internal state first. They slow their breathing, control their pace, and maintain clarity in thought and communication. This is true performance optimisation.
The truth is an anxious leader creates an anxious team. A reactive leader creates a reactive culture. Over time, this compounds into poor judgement, fragmented communication, and avoidable mistakes.
But when a leader remains composed under pressure, it signals safety. It allows teams to think instead of panic. To solve instead of scramble.
Calm doesn’t just improve decisions over time, it delivers a high level of performance.
Many businesses and people operate in a constant state of fight or flight mode and urgency, where everything feels important and every task has to be done right now.
This is often used to mask poor systems, lack of confidence or poor priorities. Calm thoughts and regulated leaders change this.
They ask better questions, they understand the implications if you act and if you wait, they decide the best path.
Importantly, they understand the real issue to be solved, not the loudest, they know that the pause is discipline, not delay.
Leaders don’t know all the answers, but they have the people and framework around them that do, that’s why they hire the team they do.
You see in high-pressure environments, most leaders fall back to classic mistakes and they react the same way but it is the calm leaders who stand out – they fall back differently, grounded, measured and are clear in the path forward.
This leads to less mistakes, stronger teams and better outcomes, growth and ROI.
This is easy to say but hard to implement, defaulting to old ways or mindsets takes time and practice.
Tips for entrepreneurs reading this – you need to understand your triggers, have a safe space physically and mentally that you can go to to regain control.
Learn to respond when it’s right, not when the noise triggers you, you do this by building routines that you execute. Importantly, you need to be self-aware of what the triggers are so you don’t react before you realise afterwards that perhaps you should have thought about that a bit more thoughtfully or strategically.
Take a deep breath in and breathe out twice as long as you make decisions to clear your mind and reset your mindset.
Repeat to yourself clarity over speed, and ask yourself, do I have all the facts available.
We all act under some kind of pressure or stress the majority of the time, that won’t change, but accepting the pressure and working with it rather than against it will get you a better result every time. Managing it is the key.
Ask yourself one simple question: “Do I want to be known as the loudest voice or the most effective voice?”
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This article is by Phil Macleod, hypnotherapist, psychologist and Founder of Thought Reader